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Often times i find that ABs and DLs of all sorts have interesting tastes in music, what kinds do you guys enjoy? Are there certain songs from cartoons or movies you guys sing along to in little space? I love to play music in normal life, but singing during a playtime is so fun. I think my favorite subgenre is death metal, but jazz fusion is great too and so is good old basic indie. Hit me up if you wanna talk music!

BookAndGuitar Sep 16 '20 · Tags: cartoons, music, playtime, band, sing

P1: What Being Genderfluid Means To Me

Okay. Where to begin?

So for years now, let's say about five years, I've been tossing back and forth about being a girl or a boy for the first four years or so. Not to say this is something that only started then, because I've wanted to be and felt like I was a boy sometimes before that too. It just happens that I didn't pay attention to stuff like that until I literally dreamt that I was a boy when I was sixteen.

Now, when you grow up learning that there are only male and female as genders, you basically are what you were raised. So of course I was a girl, and wanting to be a boy or dressing that way sometimes is just me being me. Didn't help that I didn't have any friends I was able to compare situations with so as far as I was concerned, that was normal.

Then by highschool, when I actually made friends, I had no reason to try and understand something that was normal.

After that dream however, I was hit with a sudden realization that I definitely wanted to be a boy. Even before that, I used to google on whether or not I was a male in my past life. So, drastic as that reaction to a simple dream was, it made a lot of sense at the time.

Then came the odd period of being self conscious whenever I select what clothes I would wear and those times I feel disgusted by my skirts or the other times my shorts feel too strange.

I researched about changing genders and stumbled upon a whole list of different genders I didn't know existed. Bare in mind, I was already heading towards being classified as a little so seeing more things I knew nothing about before was only mildly shocking.

Anyway, I did some research and thought things through and it just didn't feel right. Sometimes the female parts I had felt wrong but other times I didn't care because I accepted them and they were normal. I cringed at times when thinking about how I'd have sex and other time I didn't. There was even the time when I became depressed for a while because I wanted kids but the thought of baring them with my body sometimes felt wrong.

It was a rough journey but in the end it was simple.

Over the past year I've come to accept that yes I was female but I sometimes identified as a male(surprisingly this is mostly when I regress). During those times I don't like the terms she or her and actually preferred they or them. Sometimeshim or his are okay too, but it gets confusing when I once again begin to identify as my biological gender.

I now have almost no problem when thinking about having kids in the future, although I now have a bit more fear about the process than I used to. I think that's probably because I now know too much though. And I am perfectly content with my new gender identity.

I know I'm a big rubber ball of mess but I hope to find (a) Caregiver(s)/Dadd(ies) or maybe Momm(ies) because that's okay too, who can accept all of me and shower me with all the love and care I need and desire.

- Love,

Juam-juan

JuanJuan Aug 17 '20 · Tags: genderfluid, little stuff, gender, my life, just another blog, gender identity, little troubles

Looking for a Mommy dom but a daddy dom is not out of the questio...

Hi Hi.. I'm Eli and im a little, I'm 19 but have the mentality of a depressed 10 year old. I'm looking for a mommy that will love me and respect me and be there with for me throughout the days even when they are at work (little text and checkup will do perfect) It's been hard for me to search my new mommy/daddy because I'm special needs and can't really function like other people do.

Extra: I want my future mommy to be caring, sweet, kind to everyone around them, understanding, patient, strick with rules and punishments, who keeps track of me throughout the day and who doesn't care about my baby talk or that I'm not very sexual.

If your reading this future mommy, I hope you can be a real mommy that I always hear about in the stories.

ElijahJones808 Aug 15 '20

I need a mommy

I never had a caregiver i would really like a mommy right now . I been so stressed out because i cant go little because my little age goes to 0 to 3 yrars old an i want to go little help me

Kittenprincess1993 Apr 9 '20 · Rate: 1

~ Feeling Super Little Right Now ~

Hi, I'm Eddy.. I usually feel 2-4. But right now I'm feeling even younger and more needy. Daddy went to sleep so no one is taking care of me right now and I really, really need it.

Can someone nice please talk to me?

prince4queen Nov 26 '19 · Tags: #littlespace #littleboy #littlegirl #regression #babyboy #babygirl #nonbinarylittle #nonbinary #polyamarous

ABDL Potty Training

I love wearing diapers and regressing but one of my favorite scenarios is to be potty trained. It sounds strange but it brings together a few things I really enjoy that don’t directly involve wearing diapers.

The first is bladder control and I'm not talking about how long I can hold it for. I enjoy having to ask permission to use the bathroom and being given or better yet denied permission to go. It's the ultimate loss of control, having to go but not being allowed to because "you're learning to hold it until you can use the bathroom". This goes along well with a D/s relationship where someone else is in control and you have to do what they say. There’s also a joy in being a dom and watching your sub squirm because they need to pee but are not allowed to.

This usually leads to another favorite activity, wetting my pants. There’s something special in losing control and flooding your pants, it’s taboo, easily noticeable and really embarrassing. It makes me feel really small and quickly gets me into little space. The desperation leading up to it and the relief you feel right before the embarrassment sets in is amazing and it confirms that you’re not yet big enough to be out of diapers.

The next part is something I both love and hate, punishments. You’ve been asked to hold your pee, you failed and are now in soaking wet pants (hopefully not in public) and you can only think of one thing… what is my punishment going to be? Typically this means a spanking, probably some corner time and maybe losing a privilege but either way being punished is all a part of being little and getting potty trained.

After the spanking and corner time comes the best part, back in diapers! It’s a fun journey to take, going from desperate to pee, embarrassed and humiliated, then a sore bottom, a thick diaper, and cuddles from your CG. It’s a lot of things that I don’t necessarily enjoy while in the moment but looking back on them makes me really happy. I’d gladly be potty trained (consequences and all) any time!

I’ll have to follow up this post with some stories of times I’ve played out this scenario. Has anyone else ever tried something like this? How did you like it?

littleguy012 Nov 25 '19 · Tags: abdl, d/s, potty training, spanking, bladder control

First time in a while

Got home from work today and grabbed a diaper for the first time in a very long time.

Just browsing this site while diapered feels right for some reason. Probably going to wear it overnight. Would actually be the first time I have worn one overnight.

LilyErinLilRed Nov 20 '19