Being new to ddlg, I find myself thinking back on my behavior in all my past relationships.And I start noticing things about myself back then. How I've never grown out of watching cartoons.How I absolutely start squealing and jumping for joy whenever I go into a toy store.How I love cordial cherries and squirming around in my seat as I suck the juices out of them.I love cute hair bows and make up a whole bunch. I always tend to lose interest in Men that don't seize the opportunities to dominate me even when I throw them out there.How I'm the only one who knows, until now, that if a man exercises real authority over me I crumble and melt and immediately become sweet and submissive.How I absolutely love to be spanked. And I don't like to take charge during sex. I want to be dominated. I don't want to have to worry about all the grown up stuff out there. Not all the time. It's so hard. But what makes me really sad is that the grown up me is 38 years old now.And the little me is just now emerging.Who's going to want little old me? I have stretch marks and loose skin from bearing children.And I'm not young and pretty like a 22 year old.But I'm a very very good girl with a little naughty streak.All I really want is it true Daddy Dom with strong eyes and real Authority who knows that I'M his little girl,and who will know exactly how to take care of me.I may never ever get that though.Maybe I'm too late.
The thing I want/need most in life is to have my dream daddy. He would help me get into little space, spoil me by taking care of me, give me bubble baths, let me play with toys, let my wear diapers when I’m feeling extra little, help me do stuff when I’m feeling little like brush my hair, help get me dressed/ pick out clothes, give me sippy cups or bottles to drink from, give and enforce rules, and punish me if I break any rules.
What being a Daddy means to me.
I’m 39, I’ve been an ageplayer and daddy for most of my
adult life. I have always dated younger than I am, that’s how I have been for a
very long time.
It’s not about sex to me, although that component of this
kink is quite enjoyable, but should not be the focus of calling yourself a
daddy.
It’s about the trust placed in you by your little, your
princess whatever name they prefer to be called. It’s an awesome responsibility
to have someone place that immense level of trust in you. Your job is to care
for them, protect them be that shield between the evils of this world and the
person that you care for, love.
It’s about waking up next to them, giving them a bath and
washing their hair, it’s about making breakfast and wiping the sleep off their
face. It’s a level of trust that a traditional non ddlg relationship rarely
finds. It’s about coming home from work with a brand new stuffie because your
little has been amazing that week, it’s also about punishing your little when
they break the rules. Make no mistake other daddies, you must follow through
with that punishment. The moment you don’t, your little loses respect for you,
they start to lose trust that you will not follow through with the things you
say.
It’s also about waking your little up on a weekend and
having them a bag ready because you’re taking them to the zoo or the beach or a
toy store, making sure they have a paci, a stuffie, snacks and if they are
diapered make sure you have that as well. Be prepared, that shows your little
that you have a genuine love for them, that you care enough to remember their
favorite movie, tv show, band, cartoon, etc.,
I’m not a daddy to be a perverted older man, I’m a daddy
because I want to be, I’m a daddy because I want to care for my little, cuddle
with my little, mentor them, to make sure that no matter what happens in their
lives that I can be part of littlespace, that I am the safe harbor, that my
attention and love are focused on them no matter what.
Just some ramblings from a daddy without a little in the
pacific northwest. May all your dreams be sweet and your daddies and littles
even sweeter.
cbtl
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