What being a Daddy means to me.
I’m 39, I’ve been an ageplayer and daddy for most of my
adult life. I have always dated younger than I am, that’s how I have been for a
very long time.
It’s not about sex to me, although that component of this
kink is quite enjoyable, but should not be the focus of calling yourself a
daddy.
It’s about the trust placed in you by your little, your
princess whatever name they prefer to be called. It’s an awesome responsibility
to have someone place that immense level of trust in you. Your job is to care
for them, protect them be that shield between the evils of this world and the
person that you care for, love.
It’s about waking up next to them, giving them a bath and
washing their hair, it’s about making breakfast and wiping the sleep off their
face. It’s a level of trust that a traditional non ddlg relationship rarely
finds. It’s about coming home from work with a brand new stuffie because your
little has been amazing that week, it’s also about punishing your little when
they break the rules. Make no mistake other daddies, you must follow through
with that punishment. The moment you don’t, your little loses respect for you,
they start to lose trust that you will not follow through with the things you
say.
It’s also about waking your little up on a weekend and
having them a bag ready because you’re taking them to the zoo or the beach or a
toy store, making sure they have a paci, a stuffie, snacks and if they are
diapered make sure you have that as well. Be prepared, that shows your little
that you have a genuine love for them, that you care enough to remember their
favorite movie, tv show, band, cartoon, etc.,
I’m not a daddy to be a perverted older man, I’m a daddy
because I want to be, I’m a daddy because I want to care for my little, cuddle
with my little, mentor them, to make sure that no matter what happens in their
lives that I can be part of littlespace, that I am the safe harbor, that my
attention and love are focused on them no matter what.
Just some ramblings from a daddy without a little in the
pacific northwest. May all your dreams be sweet and your daddies and littles
even sweeter.
cbtl
Being new to ddlg, I find myself thinking back on my behavior in all my past relationships.And I start noticing things about myself back then. How I've never grown out of watching cartoons.How I absolutely start squealing and jumping for joy whenever I go into a toy store.How I love cordial cherries and squirming around in my seat as I suck the juices out of them.I love cute hair bows and make up a whole bunch. I always tend to lose interest in Men that don't seize the opportunities to dominate me even when I throw them out there.How I'm the only one who knows, until now, that if a man exercises real authority over me I crumble and melt and immediately become sweet and submissive.How I absolutely love to be spanked. And I don't like to take charge during sex. I want to be dominated. I don't want to have to worry about all the grown up stuff out there. Not all the time. It's so hard. But what makes me really sad is that the grown up me is 38 years old now.And the little me is just now emerging.Who's going to want little old me? I have stretch marks and loose skin from bearing children.And I'm not young and pretty like a 22 year old.But I'm a very very good girl with a little naughty streak.All I really want is it true Daddy Dom with strong eyes and real Authority who knows that I'M his little girl,and who will know exactly how to take care of me.I may never ever get that though.Maybe I'm too late.
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There is also the new distance feature to help you find someone within driving or travel distance of the postal code you entered on your profile:
https://www.datecgl.com/users/distance
I am also working on a locational page where you can click on a country or state to see all members within that section. That is an ongoing project with an unknown completion date at this time. Of course, it still means that you will have to do a little legwork yourself and filter through profiles you do and do not like, that do and do not match your preferences.
The chat bar is located at the bottom of the page and after you've befriended someone they will appear as online when signed into their account (unless they've opted out of the chat system).
If you find that the chat room group itself isn't so active then I would suggest you pop over to Littlespace Online for the overall community chat. Just please be aware that Littlespace Online is not intended for any match-making purposes.
The thing I want/need most in life is to have my dream daddy. He would help me get into little space, spoil me by taking care of me, give me bubble baths, let me play with toys, let my wear diapers when I’m feeling extra little, help me do stuff when I’m feeling little like brush my hair, help get me dressed/ pick out clothes, give me sippy cups or bottles to drink from, give and enforce rules, and punish me if I break any rules.
maybe a week ago I was on a different site and I ran into a Daddy Dom. He was very bossy and firm, but he was fun and fair and strong!. And it really got me hot. But I was really confused because I didn't know why. So, being a very smart girl, I started studying. And boy did I learn a lot. The first night I studied I didn't even get any sleep. Because there was so much to learn, and I wanted to be smart.
And it was by studying so hard and so good that I realized my last relationship was pretty much ddlg. I loved it when he would tell me I was a good girl. When we got into arguments I would always yell at him and tell him he was a big meanie. he would look at me so funny, and he would tell me that I argue like a little girl. I love prancing around the house and making things for him to eat and having him praise me over and over for all the good things I did. he kept me out of trouble and made sure I was doing the right thing all the time. And if I misbehaved... Well he got really fussy. And he would fuss fuss fuss and fuss and more. But he never hurt me, at least not with his hands. But he was sloppy Daddy. he wasn't a real daddy. And he was not a good daddy. He left me alone too many times and for way too long. so the last time he left me all by myself, it was for 12 days. 12 whole days without cuddles or kisses or check-ups. and it hurt me so bad. so my grown up self took my little self and hid her away.
but now I'm lonely. Because the big meanie had to go. the grown-up me made him leave because he was not good for us. and now I'm curious.I hope someday I find me a daddy Dom who's really good to me.
So good luck to everybody out there and good luck to little me and I hope everybody gets what they want!
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