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cbtl
Male 45 years old
Daddy

cbtl's journal

What being a Daddy means to me.

 

I’m 39, I’ve been an ageplayer and daddy for most of my adult life. I have always dated younger than I am, that’s how I have been for a very long time.

It’s not about sex to me, although that component of this kink is quite enjoyable, but should not be the focus of calling yourself a daddy.

It’s about the trust placed in you by your little, your princess whatever name they prefer to be called. It’s an awesome responsibility to have someone place that immense level of trust in you. Your job is to care for them, protect them be that shield between the evils of this world and the person that you care for, love.

It’s about waking up next to them, giving them a bath and washing their hair, it’s about making breakfast and wiping the sleep off their face. It’s a level of trust that a traditional non ddlg relationship rarely finds. It’s about coming home from work with a brand new stuffie because your little has been amazing that week, it’s also about punishing your little when they break the rules. Make no mistake other daddies, you must follow through with that punishment. The moment you don’t, your little loses respect for you, they start to lose trust that you will not follow through with the things you say.

It’s also about waking your little up on a weekend and having them a bag ready because you’re taking them to the zoo or the beach or a toy store, making sure they have a paci, a stuffie, snacks and if they are diapered make sure you have that as well. Be prepared, that shows your little that you have a genuine love for them, that you care enough to remember their favorite movie, tv show, band, cartoon, etc.,

I’m not a daddy to be a perverted older man, I’m a daddy because I want to be, I’m a daddy because I want to care for my little, cuddle with my little, mentor them, to make sure that no matter what happens in their lives that I can be part of littlespace, that I am the safe harbor, that my attention and love are focused on them no matter what.

Just some ramblings from a daddy without a little in the pacific northwest. May all your dreams be sweet and your daddies and littles even sweeter.

cbtl

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